Received Lifetime Achievement Award in 2010. It took me six years to decide to actually post this, which says something about me. Not sure what. Reminds me of a quote attributed to the late John Lennon of the Beatles. To Paul McCartney about a song lyric, Lennon said, "I don't know what it means, but it means something."

Virta Lavell "Pat" Graves married James W. Graves in 1980 about 6 months after his first wife Margaret (my mother) died.  I just could never accept her.  Maybe that was a failing of mine.